Its a good feeling to realize that there is someone who can understand what we exactly think in our mind. Definitely everyone would agree with this. Because everyone wants to be accepted by the other person. And the realization that the other person loves the way you think, you speak, loves the way you interact with people, and admires your beauty etc. definitely helps by boosting your self-confidence. It gives you the power to move forward in life.
The major problem in today’s marriages is that this understanding can’t be found between a husband and wife. Selfishness inside them wants to get everything from others, but not ready to give anything. It’s not only in marriages but also in other relationships also.
It’s common today to deceive the partner if he or she is very much sincere in their life. Because the person who cheats firmly believes that their partner can be easily fooled by showing fake love because he or she is an idiot who won’t understand anything.
Everyone expects love and sincerity back from the other person especially in marriages. It’s very easy to fall into a sin today because of the drastic change in the technology and moral values.
“Your conscience will be affected by the moral lives you see around you, by the standards of right and wrong that is practiced in your culture and by your own responses to it.”- Kristian and Ritva Sand.
It’s very important in a relationship to be accepted by the other person. Marriage needs hard work. Satan is waiting to get inside your relationship when you are neglecting your love to your partner. Remember the vows taken during your marriage. A positive change is necessary as we grow older, and we must. But it should not be a growth when your partner is still waiting for you to stretch your helping hands. Both should grow simultaneously.
When you criticize others, check whether you are perfect. When you find faults in your partner, think that your partner loved the way you are and accepted you and gave themselves to you. And you should love them as they are.