After a long time


 

 

It has been more than 1 year since I have written anything. It’s because I am a mother of a beautiful baby girl now. I was very busy with the little angel. When I get a little time, my only aim is to take a nap.
To be a mother, that too of a baby girl is a wonderful feeling. I don’t have words to express it. I never expected motherhood will be this much blissful. After a long time of waiting, when I saw her the first time was my happiest moment in my life. I achieved something meaningful. I saw a cute, happily sleeping baby who was inside me all these months. Every child is a big miracle. The development process from a tiny embryo to a cute child is very astonishing.
I have more things to write about this girl, Esther, in the coming days 🙂

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Cost of life


This story will make all of us realise why God Almighty is the most merciful and most benevolent to all of us.

A man reached 70 years of age and was affected by a disease which made him unable to urinate.

The doctors told him that he needs an operation to cure the disease.

He agreed to do the operation as the problem was giving him severe pain for days.

When the operation was completed the doctor gave him a bill which covered all the costs.

After looking at the bill, the man started crying. Upon seeing this, the doctor said “If the cost is too high then we could make some other arrangements for you.

“The old man replied, “I am not crying because of the money but I am crying because God let me urinate for 70 years and He never sent me a bill!”

Beloved, have you thanked God for His countless blessings today?

Have you thought about the cost of oxygen in the hospital? Yet, God has given us free oxygen (air) since we were born.

Is all that God does for us no worth thanking God for? Can we not see that God is so gracious, merciful and full of compassion?

If you are truly grateful to God for your life, share this message with others, not because you expect a blessing but because you are grateful.

There are No Accidents in Life


Dr. Mark, a well-known cancer specialist, was once on his way to an important conference in another city where he was going to be granted an award in the field of medical research.

He was very excited to attend the conference and was desperate to reach as soon as possible. He had worked long and hard on his research and felt his efforts deserved the award he was about to obtain.

However, two hours after the plane took off, the plane made an emergency landing at the nearest airport due to some technical snag. Afraid, that he wouldn’t make it in time for the conference, Dr. Mark immediately went to the reception and found that the next flight to the destination was after ten hours. The receptionist suggested him, to rent a car and drive himself down to the conference city which was only four hours away.

Having no other choice, he agreed to the idea despite his hatred for driving long distances.
Dr. Mark rented a car and started his journey. However, soon after he left, the weather suddenly changed and a heavy storm began. The pouring rain made it very difficult for him to see and he missed a turn he was supposed to take.

After two hours of driving, he was convinced he was lost. Driving in the heavy rain on a deserted road, feeling hungry and tired, he frantically began to look for any sign of civilization. After some time, he finally came across a small tattered house. Desperate, he got out of the car and knocked on the door. A beautiful lady opened the door. He explained the matter and asked her if he could use her telephone.
However, the lady told him that she doesn’t have a phone or any electronic gadget but told the doctor to come inside and wait till the weather improved.
Hungry, wet and exhausted, the doctor accepted her kind offer and walked in. The lady  gave him hot tea and something to eat. The lady told him that he can join her for prayer. But, Dr. Mark smiled and said that he believed in hard work only and told her to continue with her prayers.
Sitting on the table and  sipping the tea, the doctor watched the woman in the dim light of candles as she prayed next to what appeared to be a small baby crib.

Every time she finished a prayer, she would start another one. Feeling that the woman might be in need of help, the doctor seized the opportunity to speak as soon as she finished her prayers. The doctor asked her what exactly she wanted from the God and enquired if she thought God will ever listen to her prayers. He further asked about the small child in the crib for whom she was apparently praying. The lady gave a sad smile and said that the child in the crib is her son who is suffering from a rare type of cancer and there is only one doctor Mark who can cure him but she doesn’t have money to afford his fee and moreover Dr Mark lives in another far off town. She said that God has not answered her prayer so far but said that God will create some way out one day and added that she will not allow her fears to overcome her faith.

Stunned and speechless Dr Mark was in tears which were rolling down his cheeks. He whispered, God is great and recollected the sequence of events. ….there was malfunction in the plane, a thunderstorm hit, and he lost his way; and all of this happened because God did not just answer her prayer but also gave him a chance to come out of materialistic world and give some time to the poor hapless people who have nothing but rich prayers.

Always be prepared to do …….
What God has prepared you for

” There are No Accidents in Life”

Principles of time


Principles of time
1. See time as a gift from God.
2. See time as a resource
– think that I will plan my time, not time will plan my life
3. Plan ahead.
4. Do the most important things or hard things first
5. Set time limit for difficult projects – once u have finished 3 hours set for a task, stop doing it after 3 hours. Continue it the next day.
6.Spent money and save time(don’t waste time)
For eg. Business men spent money on flights to save time. They will be having more things to do in a day.
7. Say no to things that waste your time.
Remember that everyone has only 24 hours

Women


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Yesterday being women’s day, a lot of news about women were there. I am an Indian. I know only what is happening here. I don’t know what is happening in other countries, but I think everywhere, women are facing too much problems.
When I talk about the bad things, please don’t think that India is the worst country. Everyone will have something unpleasant to tell.

Why are women not safe? Firstly, they are not getting freedom in their own houses. In this case also, I am talking only about a small group of people. There are lot of women who get very much support and encouragement from their families and are very successful in their lives.

Both men and women should understand that women are not objects. Boys  should be taught by their parents that they should respect their opposite gender, and should not see them as sexual objects. Women have also the responsibility of behaving like they are not sexual objects. I have one thing to say, whenever you look at a woman with evil intentions in your mind, try to imagine your mother’s face in that place. Even then you can’t stop your evil intentions, your life in this world is only a garbage. You will not get a good future. What you do today can affect your daughter tomorrow. Open your eyes and think of the consequences that will be horrible in your old age. Repentance is good, but the enjoyment for a short period, will be ruining your whole life.
Dear parents, its your responsibility to teach your children to respect others. Only by showing them with your example of life. In Bible, its written that (Pro 13:24) “He who spares his rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him promptly.”
And don’t criticise other parents if their children are not going in a good way, because its also written in bible that, ‘don’t judge others’.
You will be ashamed if you criticise others.

Dear women, please dress in a manner that you get respect from others. Its not a good manner to exhibit yourself as sexual objects. Don’t share your revealing body pictures to anyone. Women are not created to be only fun giving objects to men. They have a big responsibility to be a good example to their future generations. Interact with men in a good way by every means.

In India, the government should take strict legal actions against the attacks over women. Punishments should be very strict so that even a small bad thought against the women should be eradicated.

Fathers should give confidence and very much support to their daughters in their homes. Even if your daughters are travelling alone, they should feel that they have their father to support them. Don’t discourage their good motives. Don’t say ‘No’ to their good motives.
Its very heartbreaking to read about the rapes in newspapers everyday, especially what the fathers are doing to their daughters. Your daughter is a part of you. She is depending on you to grow up in this world. How can anyone do this?

And dear brothers, its your duty to take care of your sister and ensure that she is safe. Don’t ever see a woman as an object. Instead bring out the lots of strengths and abilities within her to make this world a heaven.

Women, follow your dreams. A woman herself will be the last one to recognise her strengths. Try to achieve your goals. You can..

For a happy marriage


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I want to share my opinions about married life. It may feel right or wrong depending on each of the readers. I am not that much matured and old enough to speak with much authority. I am just sharing what I felt.
A boy and a girl are entering a new life completely different from what they have experienced till that time. There are some factors which enhance and some which negatively affect the happiness in the life of a husband and wife.

• They should have some common similarities and interests. Because everyone loves themselves first. If they find someone who has similar interests of them, it is more easy to enjoy together. Then they can perceive romance in their conversations. If a common interest is not there, there will be a small struggle to adjust between themselves.
Definitely  there should be different interests between themselves. That will help them to understand some great life lessons or even very small things. They can learn from each other. There should be a balance. An emotionally mature couple can enjoy life even if they have different interests.
• After marriage they should never have any secrets between them. Maybe telling everything openly will create a little discomfort, but this openness shows that you respect your partner. They will be able to help you if you are in a problem.
•The word ‘respect’ is very much relevant in this relationship and is inevitable. If your partner is able to respect you, your relationship is a success. You cannot expect them to be perfect in everything unless you are perfect. Give respect and take respect.
• Marriage is a mutual commitment. One should not always blame his or her partner for anything. Usually everyone wants their partner to be true and perfect in everything, but they are not willing to be true to their partner. Trust can only be gained from faithfulness. Once the trust is lost, life will be miserable.